I love being a Black Woman.
I absolutely relish being a Black Woman Entrepreneur who chooses to pour her genius into (primarily) purpose-driven, spirit-led Black Women entrepreneurs, experts, CEOs, and coaches.
These powerhouses are women who have walked through life’s fire, and no longer smell like smoke.
Each woman is whole and HUNGRY to turn that fire into the fuel that skyrockets them to their divine seven-figure destiny.
Simply put: I love making Black Women Entrepreneurs, millionaires.
In order to be effective at the mandate from my Creator to serve the clients that were ordained for me even before I was born, I have had to get crystal clear on what I need in order to do God’s work through my private clients.
I don’t relate to my business as a business. I relate to my business as my Calling.
I had to clarify within my spirit, EXACTLY what I require of my private clients.
Why?
So I can empower their personal power.
Activating, trusting, and embracing your personal power gives you access to THE most important element for monetizing your truth: internal permission to prosper.
Due to the impact and residue of being born in the pejorative and punitive context entitled “Black Woman” for hundreds of years, we, collectively, traffic in a perpetual state of low-key survival.
It’s subtle.
But it’s there.
Policing is internal; what we can’t have or should ask for.
Especially when it comes to money.
Even when a Black Woman is affluent, fit, and accomplished, Impostor Syndrome hovers.
Without the internal permission to prosper, no amount of marketing, sales training, or personal branding will move a private client of mine from a six-figure earner to a seven-figure one.
So I have to have standards, processes, and requirements to discern if a potential private client’s SURVIVAL will allow them to become a sustainable and scalable millionaire.
People underestimate the impact that being sold has on a Black Woman’s ability to accept payment. (But that’s another topic for another time.)
I say all that to say I screen my clients.
- I don’t accept payment from potential clients if they do not inspire me.
I can’t do my best work with a person I don’t believe or believe in.
So my vetting process is designed to turn down more potential clients than I actually take on. My entire vetting process is designed to discourage people from working with me.
- I can’t get you to your first million or your next millions with ease, if you are not convicted in your bones you are the answer to millions of people’s prayers.
Said another way: you have something to say that will help somebody else.
If a potential client is seduced by the ideal of being a millionaire, they are not equipped to do my work. The money is a natural fallout of fulfilling a real need in the marketplace.
- My private client vetting process (which is distinct from my group programs that’s designed for mass consumption) can take anywhere from three months to a year plus.
That’s intentional.
I need to study you.
To see if you are the truth.
I have to learn your survival.
- A person’s survival strategy will sabotage seven-figure success right on the precipice of glory.
So in order for me to cherry pick the private clients who are teachable, whole, and can make their mark, their difference and easily and quickly scale to millionaire status, I need to screen my potential clients.
And I do.
- The ones who are chosen, have my heart, my genius, and my loyalty for life.
I make strategic introduction for them. You would be surprised by how many mentors, trainers, or coaches don’t.
I share proven resources with them, so they have what they need to soar without going through the hell of finding folk who deliver.
I customize their offer, marketing messaging and strategy, as well as craft their service delivery in alignment with their Spirit-Led purpose AND a real need in the marketplace.
- I love them just as they are and just as they are not. As far as I am concerned my clients are God wrapped in flesh; whole, complete, perfect, and divine.
I feel like my clients are the Daughter’s of the Most High.
I have been entrusted with that which is sacred.
Sanctified.
Holy.
And what can be more holy than a Black Woman using her lived anointing to transform the world?
Absolutely nothing.
No. Thing.
Nada.
To say that my work is as much spiritual as it is profitable is an understatement.
Money is spiritual.
Purpose is spiritual.
A Calling is spiritual
Anointing is spiritual.
When a Black Woman finally has surrendered to and embraced the blessing from the historical trauma inherited— and in many cases, lived—her power is unleashed.
She becomes God in her Universe.
It is THAT surrender and embrace of the blessing that purifies the pain forged in Life’s fire.
Here is an example.
One of my private clients, Donna, is a remarkable woman. In her lifetime she has worked in finance, held public office, and created curriculum to transform work culture within healthcare.
This Sister is BADDDD!
She is brilliant, beautiful, and kind.
Donna’s millionaire future is hers for the taking.
It’s her choice.
She has the goods.
AND she—like me and so many other powerful Black Women—have to CHOOSE to love ourselves with the same unbreakable commitment, fervor, and grace with which we love our kids.
Our parents.
Our partners.
Becoming a Black Woman Millionaire is not a function of efficacy, education, funding, or access. Those factors have weight but are not the determining factor.
No.
The determining factor is this: internal permission.
Internal permission is a product of one’s self-image.
Inner identity.
One’s sense of self.
Your sense of self determines what you will allow yourself to have.
Your sense of self will only see what your survival is comfortable with, good and bad.
Your sense of self whispers in your ear about what you deserve and what you don’t have a right to have.
It is only when you have freed yourself enough from the tethers of what we, as Black Women have inherited and contend with daily are you able to access the God within.
It is in THAT space, that permission is granted.
Donna traffics in that space.
She’s teachable and accountable.
She implements like lives depend on her.
She inspires me.
So I make it my business that she wins. She, and all of my clients are my destiny.
They are the reason I survived.
I thank God I’m a Black Woman.
Loving, supporting, and empowering purpose-driven and spirit-led Black Women Entrepreneurs to the million-dollar mark is not about money.
It’s about freedom.
Not just for some but all.
I will not be the only millionaire who can fund our dreams.
I’m bringing my sisters with me.
Until we can fund our own institutions—I’m talking communal not individual—we live at the effect of the past.
Someone who has proven—throughout generations—that she is in it for the long haul and for future generations…
Someone who is the fastest growing segment in entrepreneurship in North America…
Somebody had to write the check.
Someone who is healed and whole.
Someone who is committed to Us.
That “someone” is a Black Woman Millionaire.
The Dalai Lama is known for having said it will be the Western Woman who saves the world.
Perhaps.
I believe it will be the healed and whole Black Woman who transforms it.
Sis, that woman is you.
I love you,
Dr. Venus
Ps: Is it time for you to give yourself the internal permission to become a Black Woman Millionaire?
If your heart is screaming, YES!!!!—then email me directly at dr.vor@venusopal.com
Let’s get the ball rolling!
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